Appreciate him sincerely: maybe he is not as educated as you, but he is clever and handy;
He may not be paid as much as you, but he is gentle and considerate;
He may have come from a modest family, but he was driven…
When you hold the hand of the frog prince on the red carpet that moment, you must have a reason to be with him, in the later life, you still need to continue to find his good points, from the heart to appreciate him.
You know, when you truly appreciate someone, your heart will be filled with pleasure, and the other person will be happy to be appreciated by you.
Give him encouragement: People’s confidence comes from both inside and outside, one is indispensable.
So don’t be shy about encouraging your frog prince.
“Husband, you are great!”
“Honey, I’m a big fan of you!”
Although these words seem a little disgusting, but for his confidence is very effective!
A man full of confidence, to let his wife better to develop themselves.
Of course, behavioral encouragement is more effective than verbal encouragement, such as introducing him discreetly to your friends and letting him in and out of your circle often.
This intangible respect and recognition will make him feel that he is a treasure in your eyes, and his confidence will naturally be full.
“Is it easy for me to work so hard?”
“, “This family is counting on me!
Unless you want to break up the relationship, don’t say these words, because you are beating him around the bush and provoking him to beat you down and suppress you.
The smart thing to do is to give him credit, as in, “We’re all yours.”
“I really don’t know what to do without you!”
Don’t take matters into your own hands, but ask for his advice and listen to his ideas.
When you give credit to him, it will arouse his sense of responsibility even more, and he will work harder in the future.
Put your Family first: No matter how busy you are or how heavy your official duties are, you must have a family-first attitude if you want your family to be happy.
When family happiness conflicts with other opportunities or interests, put family happiness first.
Such behavior will arouse the frog prince’s responsibility to his family.
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