Three years ago, with the dream of panning for gold, I followed my husband from the countryside of Shanxi to Wuhan and started a women’s clothing business.
Husband RONGFA character wooden, not good management, most of the business by me to take care of, inside and outside, I show the one side of a strong woman, dozen goods unload, deal with local ruffian rogue, industrial and commercial taxation, city management department and so on, basically pressure to me.
In order to make a living, for this family, I can say that my heart is broken.
As a businessman, he knows how hard it is to make money. Ding Li, a fellow farmer in the market, often gives me advice and serves as a consultant. He came to Han ten years earlier than my husband and I.
Before I thought he was good to me, because he and Rong hair is a classmate relationship, until one day, he took me to purchase, suddenly pulled my hand, at that moment, I just understand that he likes me.
Oddly enough, it felt so good to be led by him that my heart was pounding all afternoon, as if I had gone back to my first taste of the forbidden fruit of love.
People say ten fingers to the heart, from the moment Ding Li touched my fingertips, my heart was stolen by him.
I am a person, the biggest weakness is not calm, in my concept, people who love each other should be together.
I don’t want anything else from Ding Li, just one thing: stay away from me until you get a divorce.
But even though he had promised me repeatedly that he would divorce me, he had not yet done so.
Surprisingly, divorce is more troublesome than marriage.
After waiting for Ding Li to say what he had been expecting for a long time, I slowly took the road of forcing Ding Li to divorce, and by hook or by crook.
Ding Li this person naturally good face, he always said to wait and see, and his wife Xiaoyan to discuss the divorce of the matter is not whether or not, I will play a temper, directly to his home.
I took and Dingli exchanged dozens of text messages, placed in front of the swallow, “we have this thing, you see how to do it?”
Swallow face expressionless, a pair of dismissive appearance, such as Ding Li to come, she can’t pretend to be calm, ruthless fan his two ears.
After that, Ding Li did not come to me for more than half a month. Just when I made up my mind to cut off my love, he threw another ray of hope, “Marriage will definitely leave, you are waiting for me.”
This wait until the swallow to my husband Rongfa snitch, she cried, her husband will soon become my second husband.
Rong Fa felt very suddenly, but didn’t say anything, secretly transferred all the money in our joint account over the years, this move is already hard enough, what’s more, Rong Hua also wanted to transfer the facade, pick up things to go back home, determined not to appear in Wuhan from now on.
Odd-even lover I was completely cut off, can only go all the way back home with Ronghua.
Before long, I often feel body fatigue, on the hospital a check, the original is ectopic pregnancy.
Ronghua and married seven or eight years, we have no children, the winter before the adoption of a female child, on the county hospital operation, Ronghua refused to admit that this is his child.
From the cold operating table to the discharge, I stayed in the hospital for seven days. Rong Hua neither came to visit me nor paid for my expenses.
Thinking of these years in the outside, is all I a woman carried, to the key time, no relatives accompanied by the side, desolate like a handle hammer hit my heart, it is suffocating.
When I got out of the hospital, all I could think about was getting divorced and getting out of my desperate marriage.
Ronghua is very straightforward, divorce procedures can be done at any time, but all the property, a lot of all belong to him.
I had agreed to the terms of my divorce without even considering them, and now I had nothing to look back on.
After the news of my divorce was confirmed, Ding Li burst into tears on the phone. He had just rented out the booth and was wondering if he should come to see me. Then he said: “Wait for me, I want to see you!”
Then, Ding Li and I spent the happiest week in the county. He repeated his difficulties and begged me to give him one more year. He promised to finish what he started and give me a good result.
In the midst of thousands of instructions, I sent Ding Li away, this let go, we struggled for a whole year.
Xiao Yan said, the world is not so cheap things, want to divorce, unless she died.
After she put out malicious words, Ding Li’s mother also kept helping, to break off mother-son relationship threaten, a pile of trouble called him is a dilemma, the atmosphere dare not go out.
To relieve the urgent need, I decided to go back to Wuhan first, at least stay with Ding Li, feel at ease.
From then on, his life became odd-even, staying at home, and Xiaoyan half dead, they rarely talk, like strangers like;
On the pretext of playing cards, he sneaked out to see me. I washed and cooked for him, leading a real nameless family life.
As long as we don’t talk about divorce this topic, we are all good, peaceful, once provoked, my unhappy mood will be a touch that is burning, like a copycat hit all the things, recently, his little smart were broken by me.
Maybe I should wake up, some people are their own is their own, not how long to wait is useless.