Today’s love story, for both men and women, most of them are based on appearance as the prerequisite, after being together with kiss growth, to the end, is to end with tears.
Even so, I think you will use a second to meet a person, a minute to notice this person, an hour to hook up with this person, a day to fall in love with this person, the final outcome is to use a lifetime to forget this person.
Because people are difficult to understand, otherwise there would not be so many sad people!
The feeling of love, no matter who, is sweet at the beginning.
Because you alone side more than a person to accompany, let you have someone to let you care about when lonely, this is also good.
But as time goes by and two people get to know each other more and more, you will begin to find each other’s shortcomings slowly, so the problems will come one after another.
Then you get bored, start to resent it, and even avoid it.
Remember last time on the Internet accidentally found such a story, is about love and marriage: one day, Plato asked the teacher Socrates in the end what is love?
The teacher told him to go to the wheat field first and pick the biggest and most golden ear of wheat. He could only pick it once during the period, and he could only walk forward without turning back.
Plato did as the teacher told him. As a result, he walked out of the field with empty hands. The teacher asked him why he could not pick them.
He said: “Because I can only pick once, and I can’t go back. Even if I see the biggest and golden ones, I don’t know if there are any better ones in front of me, so I didn’t pick them.
Go to the front, and found that always not before the good to see.
The biggest and golden ears were already gone.
So I didn’t pick anything.”
The teacher said, “This is love.”
Another day Plato asked his teacher Socrates what marriage was.
The teacher let him go to the woods, cut down a whole forest of the largest and most luxuriant, the most suitable for home Christmas tree, the same can only cut once, go forward can’t turn back.
Plato did as his teacher told him. This time he brought back an ordinary tree, not very luxuriant and not very bad. The teacher asked him, “How can you bring back such an ordinary tree?”
“After my experience last time, when I walked half the way and was empty-handed, I saw that the tree was not too bad, so I cut it down so that I wouldn’t miss it and end up with nothing,” he said.
The teacher said, “This is marriage.”
What do you think of when you read this story?
Just think of it yourself!
Now, some people do not dare to love after breaking up, think that their feelings become weak, there has been inertia.
In fact, these people are often first conquered by inertia, and then is the indifference of emotion.
If someone loves you and you feel good about it, it doesn’t mean you choose them.
Sometimes we often say to ourselves, in the future, we must find a person who loves us very much to be together.
But what if someone asks you what kind of person is your favorite?
If you can answer that, you tell me.
I think you can not answer, because even you don’t know what kind of person is your favorite!
Yeah, maybe we always think we’ll find someone we love.
But later, he turned back to think about it, this is how naive and ridiculous.
How do you know if you’re going to love someone if you’ve never started.
In fact, the feeling of love is very love, is to be two people together after experiencing a lot of things will be found, rather than some people say by feeling, feeling right can be together.
Feelings can also be cultivated, otherwise why now the blind date will be more and more people, do they first see each other know that they want to find the person ah?
Impossible things, are in the later days slowly cultivate feelings, think the right to be together!
But when love a person, love to how much is the most appropriate?
I personally think seven points is enough, can be said to have paid all their own, because the remaining three points, one to myself, one to my parents, and one to my friends.
Isn’t seven cents not enough?
If you try to love more, you’re likely to stress your partner out and take the fun out of the relationship altogether.
So if you love a person, give each other their own space, I believe you will be very happy!
So, love him/her to seven is the appropriate limit!
