Today’s society is more and more tolerant, and people’s desire for expression is also more and more intense, from sex in the wild, to the park under the cover of night, to sex in the car, to the Internet to tease the opposite sex…
These previously unthinkable things not only happened, but also dizzying.
More than 60 percent of young Europeans prefer “car sex instead of bed,” according to a survey of sexual behavior among young Europeans.
In Taiwan, a whopping 25 percent said they only have sex in cars.
According to a Japanese survey, 40 percent of women want to have sex with their loved ones in cars.
There is no doubt that sex in the field, lathe people and video masturbation are fine as a way to increase the excitement of sex, but it is dangerous to promote it as a special preference in sexual life and make many young people feel that they cannot experience the excitement of sex without it.
“Lathe sex in particular, where every breath in a small, enclosed space is accompanied by tension, is a heightened sense of adventure, mixed with tension and mild guilt, such as fear of being peeped or disturbed, which is more psychologically exciting.
But from the perspective of sexual medicine, this pleasure from fear, easy to bring greater psychological pressure to people.
Under such stress, young people are most likely to develop premature ejaculation problems and, over time, are likely to develop psychological ED(erectile dysfunction).”
“So this is definitely not the type of sex to recommend to young people and can have detrimental effects on the physical and mental health of both partners.”
Years ago, a science fiction movie mentioned the details of cybersex.
Men and women do not need physical contact, just through the sensor, from sex to childbirth.
Now that such plots are no longer science fiction, the proliferation of cybersex has opened up new topics for sex researchers.
According to a survey of people over the age of 18 conducted by a major website in the United States, 10 percent of Internet users are addicted to video masturbation, which affects their normal lives and relationships to varying degrees.
Another online sex survey found that 44 percent of 18 – to 45-year-olds who use the Internet are sexually motivated.
Many Internet addicts indulge in video masturbation as a way to relieve the pressure of real sex.
It started with sexually explicit text chats, then evolved into sexually explicit video chats, then into video masturbation.
Slowly, these can not satisfy the increasing demand for sex, sexual fantasies filled the brain, the next will meet online, play pornographic games.
The essence of sex is to possess and communicate originally, but network sex lets people simulate this kind of process in unreal, do not communicate, just blindly possess.
At first, this may satisfy part of his sexual repression, but later, the person will be infatuated with the excitement and convenience of online sex, falling into a more empty fantasy world.
“Addiction, not only destroys their spirit, but ultimately inevitably destroys their life.
“I think like health warnings on cigarettes, porn sites should have prominent warnings on their web pages so that people who visit such sites know the dangers.”
A few years ago, many avant-garde writers took up the banner of “writing with the body”. Now, with the popularity of Internet blogs (personal online diaries), many ordinary people are also keen to make their sexual privacy public.
In one case, Jason, who had just returned from Italy, felt the urge to post his sexual details on his blog.
He says it is quite normal in his Italian circle of friends, who see it as a spice and excitement to their sex lives.
But domestic colleagues are not accepting it.
After he refused himself from writing, sex was no longer exciting, and his heart was blocked.
There are usually two explanations for being open about one’s sexuality. One is that, physically, one is likely to have a high level of androgen, a desire for sex, and a tendency to be sexually aroused.
The written sexual details may not be real, but a way for him to satisfy himself.
Second, he has a psychological problem, he has a strong abnormal desire to show, and hopes to meet his psychological appeal through the most eye-catching way of public privacy.
Private sex is normal, but public sex is not.
Have been addicted to this, very likely in the future with the opposite sex when dealing with the diaphragm, serious will also produce psychosexual disorder.
Such people should reflect on whether their real sex life is healthy and consult a psychiatrist if necessary.
