Picking up girls is becoming fashionable.
It seems that men pick up women for granted, not pick up women instead of normal — either too low, too bad, can’t pick up or can’t pick up;
Or be “sick” need kidney or go to hospital.
After the observation and analysis of the phenomenon of picking up girls, it was found that picking up girls in fact also have three sixty-nine points.
Pick up girls have three basic conditions, must have at the same time can pick up girls: first, you have the desire or need to pick up girls;
Second, there are girls who may be picked up (girls want to be picked up or may be picked up);
Third, you can pick up women (have the qualifications to pick up women and master the skills).
According to the different object of picking up girls, we can judge the level and realm of men picking up girls. There are roughly five realms.
The first is the lady, which is the lowest level.
The young lady’s occupation is “three accompany”, do some flesh trade, mix a MEAL TO eat.
Now people’s concept is more open, a large number of employees, the market competition is fierce;
Coupled with the macroeconomic situation is still depressed, domestic demand is insufficient, the market is weak, business is not good.
So under the pressure of unemployment and depression, the ladies are eager to someone to bubble, not only a bubble to come, but also meet the men who do not bubble the ladies, the ladies also want to work hard to attract customers, to be bubble, just like the promotion and promotion of merchants now.
Accordingly, BUBBLE YOUNG LADY IS A KIND OF CONSUMPTION ONLY ACTUALLY, RICH WENT, DO NOT NEED HOW MUCH SKILL, DO NOT NEED WHAT GLAMOUR MORE.
It’s like taking a bus or a taxi. You pay for it.
So, picking up a girl is not a level.
The second type is picking up girls, girls in their teens or 20s, which is a little higher.
But it’s not hard.
Now the new human, new new human, the mind is completely emancipated, first after watching the “Titanic” feelings of spring overflow, fantasy, and then after watching the “Shanghai Baby” without taboos, daring – fuck it, I just happy!
Although THE APPEARANCE IS BEAUTIFUL, BUT THE HEART IS EMPTY, WITHOUT MUCH THOUGHT, RESEMBLE POPLAR FLOWER WILLOW CATKIN, LIGHT, WITHOUT WEIGHT, DRIFT WITH THE WIND, LIVE IN ROMANTIC FANTASY ALL DAY LONG (NEWSPAPER IS NOT OFTEN HAVE FEMALE COLLEGE STUDENT, FEMALE GRADUATE STUDENT TO BE ABDUCTED AND SOLD BY THE PERSON REPORT?
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If met through the packaging of “handsome”, “cool brother”, or “talent”, “mature man”, it is hard to avoid control;
And then, when a vain little girl meets a “successful man” who looks rich, it’s even more like “sand and radish, come around”.
Therefore, the conditions of the girl is not harsh, the technique is not sophisticated, just need to work on the appearance, temperament and status of the three aspects.
Appearance, if long is not too bad to install “handsome”, if congenital deficiency, can not install “handsome” to play “cool”.
Temperament, there are a variety of options, such as packaging into talent, seems to be full of talent, will be some ancient and modern Chinese and foreign poetry novels drama music aphorism, from time to time thrown out scary jump;
Or pretend to be deep, make a weathered, once the sea is very hurt appearance, to gain sympathy — this is the use of women’s subconscious maternal instinct to protect the weak mid-level tendons;
Or pretend to be a “mature man” with insight and understanding.
In terms of status, it is packaged as a “successful man” with a successful career (usually marked by a suit and tie, a car and a house).
As long as one of these three, it is not difficult to pick up girls;
Take two, pick up girls is handy;
With three in place, you can hardly miss.
Old cows eat young grass, are basically the results of these techniques.
“Poem” does not say, “there is a woman in the spring, a lucky man to lure”, strike while the iron is hot, is the key to success.
The third type is to pick up old girls, that is, divorced single women, generally between 30 and 45 years old (older, not to be called girls, let alone interest).
Well, it’s not hard. It usually ends up with the old girls.
By RIGHTS, THE WOMAN OF THIS AGE HAS CERTAIN EXPERIENCE, ALSO HAVE A FEW KNOWLEDGE TO THE STATE OF THE WORLD 100 ELEPHANT, NOT SO EASILY BY BUBBLE.
However, now the social reality is very cruel, “divorced men are a piece of treasure, divorced women like grass”, the ratio of men and women in this age group is serious imbalance, in the marriage market of women seriously oversupply, so women have to jump off the building at a loss to deal with.
The best woman in the world should discount her hand by at least half or even half after a divorce. After all, second-handed hands do not sell well.
What’s more, after suffering trauma and experiencing the stress of living alone, and longing for a shelter from the storm, such a woman’s chronic loneliness brings her to what the Book of Songs calls a “basket and basket,” a kind of gas-station hazard zone that requires “no fireworks.”
One spark and it’s a fire.
Therefore, it is not difficult to pick up this kind of old girl, even easier than picking up chicks, just need to play “I want to have a home” sign, and then pick up chicks in a different way.
The fourth is hitting on someone else’s wife.
This difficulty is larger, the success rate is also lower than above three kinds.
The key is to remember the saying “the fly never bites the unsewed egg”.
For a woman who is taken by a famous lover, although it is inevitable that she is sometimes a little dreamy and even wild in her heart, she is still very calm in the critical time, especially when she needs to take action.
“Work is not ten, not easy;
“No change, no change,” is very suitable for these women.
If the husband is excellent, the children are clever and clever, the family is harmonious and happy, the husband and wife love each other, the wife has no dissatisfaction with the husband, that is the egg without seam, don’t waste expression as early as possible.
There are usually three kinds of opportunities: First, the woman is very excellent, but the husband is not outstanding, “tall woman and short husband”, not compatible, outsiders talk about this, women are not too comfortable, just say they don’t care;
Two is the husband is more dull and numb, do not understand amorous feelings, do not understand the pity of sweet jade, let the wife feel lost, empty, lonely;
Three IS THE HUSBAND FLOWER HEART, HAVE AN AFFAIR, THE WIFE WANTS TO REVENGE (JUST START MAY JUST BE IN THE SUBCONSCIOUS KIND of revenge psychology, even ONESELF ALSO did not realize)– IN a word, the feelings APPEAR crack, the wife is dissatisfied with the husband, became a seam of the egg, then can take advantage of the void.
Bubble this kind of woman’s basic type and actual hamstrings is: the first recruit peacock open: look for opportunities to self-expression, and let each other see, let each other feel that he is a very special, very personality, very tasteful man, to attract the attention of the other side.
Weasel New Year greeting: Look for opportunities to approach each other, show concern, appreciation and affection, let the other person feel that you are good to her, is trustworthy at least can be a friend.
The third move Chencang dark Du:
Some individual communication opportunity, seeks for some common ground between the two sides, such as, experiences, interests, hobbies, values, and so on, to show some kind of knowledge, talent and wisdom, be careful to do not break humor humor and wit, of course, is essential for women to have a proper respect, care and consideration (far just pour advantage,
To each other feel “very comfortable, can accept” the appropriate point, too much let a person feel disgusting, suspect you have ulterior motives;
The fourth trick to play hard to get: the fish at this time is about to hook, but can’t hurry, must learn to fish, play hard to get.
You can excuse yourself from appointments, not answering your phone, not answering your page.
Meet after change usually gush, eloquent, artful, tongue spit lotus image, become silent, unhappy, when not often appears preoccupied, thoughtful appearance: rhetoric and haw eyes drifting about, expression ambiguous, let each other can’t help to ask you – what’s the matter with you?
At this time, you can enter the next link -${FDPageBreak} fifth trick straightforward: in the other party’s continuous questioning, you can enter the topic, began to express.
The appearance of the first, must make the very hesitate, hesitate (continuously, for example, smoking, drinking hard – it is best to drink beer, usually having four or five drinks will not be the real man’s capacity for liquor drunk, don’t drink too much wine, otherwise really drunk, drunk speak truth, things will mess up), because this play is tells the story of the struggle of the sense and sensibility,
At the present stage of the drama is the triumph of emotion over reason, the dyke of reason is about to break, so there has to be a performance of inner pain and struggle;
Then, finally made up their mind, get it off their chest, the flood of feelings broke the banks, feel at ease to “do the wrong thing, love the wrong person”;
And loved each other, how can say how he or she is almost to the point of hopeless, then the words must be a little exaggerated, passionate, poetic, talented, can move each other, the higher the temperature, the better, “iron man”, at least in advance through best love letters such as reference books, but these books are now out of many.
Stealing two lyrics from pop songs also works well, such as “I blame you for being too beautiful” and “I’m not careful, but the truth is hard to resist”;
Can point foreign language THAT is even better, THE choice is bigger, also APPEARS MORE TASTEFUL some, CAN sing a song (can’t sing a song!
“Oh,can’t you see it,baby,you’ve got me goin crazy!”
“Or” You’re the only one who really know meatall!
“And” Everything I do,I do it for you!
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If you can be creative, the effect is definitely better.
Tip 6: The other person may be impressed, but nine times out of 10 it’s hard to make up your mind that quickly.
At this time, also need to remember to do a job, is to come to a self-confessed performance: 1, pour out some of their own misfortune to win sympathy (such as their own experience how how bumpy, is how need care;
Or his wife how how not things, do not understand feelings, family life boring……
Your wife won’t be there to refute it anyway, and she won’t be able to do the research), “I’m like a tired sailing leaf swaying toward your high arms” (a few women could resist!)
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2, express themselves again really falls in love, oneself also know this feeling is very dangerous for her, won’t have what results, however, difficult to extricate themselves after fall in love, lost his head, “not I intentionally mean, just can’t change their” (this is using reduction to absurdity to prove himself is, indeed, very, very love her, hey hey!)
3, prove their goodness: show that they really do not want to destroy her family and happiness, but, if you lose her, this life simply can’t survive, because they met her in the decades before is simply live in vain!
(” Recent you are my deepest pain!”
)- This trick is twofold. One is to subtly prove that you really do love her, or at least that the feeling is very sincere and passionate, so as to encourage the other person to “make up his mind that he is not afraid of sacrifice” (note: to make her “not afraid of sacrifice”, make no mistake!!).
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The second is for the future of cold feet, irresponsible lay the groundwork (not long ago said that know the feelings have no results, also do not want to destroy other people’s family?
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, and can also put the fault to the other party in advance.
If the outcome of the future is a tragedy (nine out of ten is so), then “willing to bet admit defeat” : do not complain, do not complain, the next life together;
Don’t blame you, don’t blame me, “it’s all the moon”!
The seventh trick is like a duck to water: after six tricks, you can basically get it done. If you can’t get it for a while, you can repeat and cross the fourth trick, the fifth trick and the sixth trick until you get it done.