Deciphering the child’s rebellious psychology

In the process of children’s psychological development, there will be a period of time when they will suddenly appear impatient and disobedient, and they will not let others interfere in their affairs. This phenomenon often occurs in preschool children and is mostly normal. But there are also some children with obvious rebellious psychology, which affects their physical and mental health and their relationship with the people around them. The formation of rebellious psychology does not happen overnight, and the reasons for its formation include:

1. Parents lack frequent emotional communication with their children, lack of respect for their children, and children will treat parents with disrespect. There are two forms of expression: rudeness and silence.
2. Adults are overly accommodating to children. Children think that they will not be criticized for making mistakes. This kind of wrong information makes children unclear. Once parents want to discipline, children are very uncomfortable and will inevitably rebel.
3. paternalistic style. Domineering education makes children feel uncomfortable and depressed, so they respond to parents with resistance.

4. The child is dissatisfied with the family and parents, believing that the family lacks equality, democracy and respect. In particular, the discord between the parents makes the children’s psychological obstacles, and they often express their dissatisfaction with rebellious behaviors. Also, they often feel distressed because their parents have no role model and feel that they have no spiritual support, and they will also use their rebellious emotions as an outlet.
5. Lack of satisfaction. For various reasons, parents cannot be with their children often. Although they are rich in material things, their children feel very hungry emotionally. After a long time, they will express their dissatisfaction with rebelliousness and silence in the absence of a double love. .