Many times men and women quarrel when they are together, because the two sides lack understanding and do not understand each other’s psychology. If you know more about each other’s psychology, the quarrel will be much less likely to happen. The following editor will introduce to you a few psychological restricted areas of men. If you are a smart woman, you must understand these.
- Don’t judge his appearance. Men rarely compliment their physical appearance. This is not so much because of shame, but because of lack of self-confidence. If you compliment his appearance, then he will have a positive attitude towards his body, he will have confidence, and he will be more poised to devote himself to social activities. But if your evaluation is not so favorable to him, it will make him feel inferior, and even lead to strong anger, which cannot be underestimated in a man. Don’t praise another man’s achievements in front of one man. Men are naturally competitive and never give in. Many men are often jealous of another man’s success. If a man, especially a woman, admires another man’s achievements in front of him, it will make him think he has been looked down upon and that you are deliberately belittling him.
- Don’t laugh at the impotence of men Among all the taboos of men, impotence of men (impotence, premature ejaculation, small penis, etc.) is the biggest taboo. Once a man has any trouble in sexual function, plus he hears the gossip of others, then the strong man will become vulnerable. Produce uncontrollable sexual distress, sexual confusion, and sexual fear.
- Don’t laugh at him for being timid and cowardly. Some men are timid, and sometimes they are scared to death, or cry bitterly. This secret of a man can be observed by a woman with her keen and attentive eyes. But please don’t make fun of him in person. If you reveal this secret, he will hate you for tarnishing his manly image.
- Don’t talk about his failures For most men, it is “success” not to be considered a loser by others. Here, success is not measured by winning but only by “not failing”. The reason why they are satisfied with “not failing” is that most men admit in their hearts that there are only a handful of truly successful people. Talking about his failures inevitably made him angry at times. Don’t talk about his role in the family Although he is very open, considerate to his wife, and diligent in housework, men subconsciously believe that gentleness and housework are detrimental to the dignity of a man.