There are many people who attend various class reunions during the summer vacation. But this year, for “God No. A”, the college class reunion has made him sleepless for several days. Story introduction: The male god A and the goddess B are college classmates. They have been in love for four years. Finally, because of choosing a first-tier city to work, he begins his inner blueprint. Goddess B chose to stay in her university and continue her postgraduate studies. When they first separated, the two still had occasional contact, and they did not explicitly say they broke up. After a year, the goddess suddenly said about the breakup: “I think it’s better for us both to have long pains than short ones. Although we have been in love for so many years, I feel that our life directions are more and more inconsistent, and our ideals are more and more different. You want to make a lot of money, I don’t object, but our ideas are very different, and our pursuits are different. Also, I plan to go abroad after graduate school, and I may not come back then. So, I think it’s not as good as now Breaking up is good for you and me. You can also find a better girl, start a family sooner, and meet the requirements of your parents for you….The two officially broke up. “. The male god is reluctant to let go of this long-term relationship. The male god has saved many times but was repeatedly rejected by the goddess. The male god does not understand that the so-called “direction of life”, “ideal” and “pursuit” are different. In the end, the goddess didn’t make it clear. Did she say that because she liked other people? Or did she feel like she didn’t make a lot of money, so she wanted to break up? Or did she feel that she was not good enough? Better boys? ….
These various questions have been delayed until today, ten years later. The first college reunion. At this time, the male god had already started a family and established a business, and his career had also become popular. The family is harmonious, the wife is virtuous, and the children are lively and lovely. The only thing that makes him regretful is the “little dragon girl” back then. The goddess returned to China after studying abroad and worked in a foreign company. Currently single. I heard that the goddess will also participate in this class reunion. The male god also attended early. In addition to wanting to relive the old relationship, he also wanted to understand the real reason for the breakup: why don’t you love me? I want to prove to the goddess that it was your fault that you chose to give up on me back then… When the two met, the past was vividly remembered, but in the eyes of the goddess, the male god couldn’t see the figure of the love they had in those days. During the meeting, the male god tried to test the goddess, but he never got a positive answer. Finally, taking advantage of a little bit of alcohol, I invited the goddess to the cafe next to the restaurant for a small talk. The goddess still said the same words back then: “Look, my decision at that time was right, we chose different directions for each other, you got what you wanted, and I got what I wanted, even though I’m still single now, But I’m enjoying life now. It’s not all good for you and me.”
From the words of the goddess, the tenderness and sweetness of the past can no longer be found. This makes the male god very disappointed. Why? Or all kinds of why? I think, similar love has been staged countless times on many college campuses. There has also been a joke like this: when they fall in love in college, there are not many left to talk about after graduation, and there are not two couples left who are married, and the last two couples who get married are also divorced. This kind of love does not seem to be new. But for both men and women, the one who is unwilling to let go is still thinking hard in their hearts today, many years later. Especially for boys. Like the male god in the above case: Why do you say that the person who broke up is you? Am I not good enough? In this love, I paid so much, and you even kicked me? What ideal? Do you think I haven’t made any money yet? I’ve made money now, why don’t you have any attachment at all? Are you still so rational when you speak? The male god is full of doubts, dissatisfaction and even grievances and inexplicable anger. In his heart, in fact, he has been in love for many years, and he wants to blossom and bear fruit is what he has always wanted. He didn’t want to give and get nothing in return. What he wants is: what ideal, different direction. Not what I want to know. What I want is, do you still love me? In your heart, which is more important, studying abroad or being with me? Also, I have worked hard for so many years, and even started a company. You have a successful career, but you don’t care at all?
Here is an interesting question: For many men and women who have broken up, when the woman proposes to break up, a large percentage is that the man’s thought is: “Don’t you think I have no money?” If the man proposes to break up first, the woman will The idea is: “Am I not good enough?” No matter what the reason is when breaking up, it is more about giving each other a step down, and it can be regarded as respecting each other, because it is difficult to say: I don’t love you anymore or you don’t it is good. So you need to find a reason. In fact, I really broke up, I have been in love, what is the answer? Is it really important? Sometimes when we break up, it is not the unwillingness to let go of the other hand, but the unwillingness to let go of yourself! Because the other party is defined in the heart as : Another important self. And give the “inner” self a lot of important meanings: losing you is equal to a failed self. When a person breaks up, he does not want to see a “failed” self. Some people work hard and continue to prove themselves. This is not a kind of motivation in life. And some people are beaten by themselves. Lose each other, and lose yourself. Perhaps, one day I will slowly understand: every love is like two people traveling together, traveling, walking, and seeing different scenery in the same place. Finally, travel separately, although there is loneliness and loneliness, but there is a different scenery. Therefore, it is better to miss seeing each other! Just pack it carefully, put it in a corner of your heart, go all the way, experience a better scenery, and eventually you will understand: Oh! You are still here!
