Sometimes a woman’s praise feeds a man’s self-esteem more than anyone else. However, praise is also divided into many types. Learning to praise and affirm him at the right time can greatly stimulate the dignity and courage of men. An indispensable course in love psychology, you can’t help but learn it. If you want to get a sunny, confident and enthusiastic other half, it is better to do it yourself instead of trying hard to find it. Pass on positive energy to him, build self-confidence for him with language, facial expressions, and body language, stimulate his potential, give him love encouragement, respect and support, and cultivate positive, confident, and excellent men with love in their hearts. High emotional intelligence love psychology, learn to use four methods to stimulate male self-esteem.
- Praise him with unexpected words. If he looks like a muscular man, he will be surrounded by words of praise such as strong and very men. For them, hearing these words is already numb, and there is no sense of freshness and satisfaction. If you also use the same vocabulary, I am sure you will soon be forgotten by him and will not attract his attention. For such a man, it is a new experience for him to compliment him on something that he didn’t expect you to have such a gentle side and so on, and it’s easy to turn his attention to you. For example, a male with a weak appearance, weakness may be his inferiority complex, if he does something firm in the process of communication, he will not lose the opportunity to praise him. To receive such compliments from women, men first feel unprecedented stimulation and self-esteem. You will leave a deep imprint on his mind.
- Compare him to the man he admires, and if he praises a man like the man he admires, he should get a runny nose. For example, if the person he admires is Apple’s Steve Jobs, you can praise him with the following words. Yes, I think the way you live now is very similar to that of Steve Jobs in the era of struggle. Wait, 100% can go to his itch. The person you admire, in other words, the person you want to be. That person’s way of being is his template, guiding his thoughts and actions. If praised, men will continue to emerge self-confidence and satisfaction, recognize their efforts, and continue to savor the sense of accomplishment.
- Passing words praised by others Men care about the evaluation of those around them. You will be very happy if you hear the respect and trust of those around you. The sound of praise enhances self-confidence and makes oneself more refined. So if you hear people around him complimenting him, you have to tell him like a count that doesn’t mean you’re exaggerating. A man needs to encourage and coax him often. Everyone said that you are handsome. They listened to your words and thought that you were very powerful and capable of waiting for the evaluation of the people around you. It has a force that cannot be ignored in promoting the growth of men.
- When a man fails, don’t forget to praise him. Maybe you don’t know why you praise him when he fails. It’s just self-discussing and boring. But in fact, it’s not. This time is when the defense line in his heart is weak. He hopes that someone will affirm his previous efforts. Even if he fails, he will tell him many times when he is most disappointed and powerless. What he did in the past did not achieve the expected results, and the result has been hard work, worthy of respect, and no one has gone smoothly on the road of pursuing his dream. So, promptly praise the encouraging nature and make your man depend on you when he’s depressed. When this dependence becomes inertia, he really can’t leave you. No opponent can take advantage of it and destroy your love.