Don’t think that only men sweet words to coax women, women sometimes will also set a sweet trap for men to drill.
If one day, your unruly little woman suddenly becomes sweet and gentle, and gently hugs your arm and says, “My dear, I am in a very good mood today. Let me give you a minute to complain about your troubles.
I usually have what shortcomings make you dare not anger dare not say, just say.
I would never be angry!
Absolutely!”
Even in the face of such a sincere request, you should be extremely careful: * If you take it at face value — enumerating her “crimes,” and ramping them up, forgetting to observe her face.
Women want to be held in the hands of men, how can they accept such criticism.
Since you just promised, you might as well bear with me for a minute.
If you go over the limit (and you can’t stop), prepare for a shock.
* If you are thoughtful — and only make appropriate “accusations” — and if something goes wrong, add gently, “I love your flaws as much as I love your strengths, even though you have your flaws.”
There’s nothing a woman doesn’t like to hear nice things.
No matter how not on the surface, the heart must be jubilant.
Although women like pettish, but also shy.
At the beginning of their acquaintance, they hung out among the dazzling shop Windows.
Suddenly, the woman’s eyes are attracted by something, between the conscious and unconscious, walk while staring back at the target.
What do you do?
* Pretend to be insensitive and keep walking?
Wrong!
Although a woman will not say anything on the surface, in the heart of your impression will certainly be discounted.
She looks back a lot, naturally hoping you’ll notice her reaction.
This is a woman to measure whether the other side care about their one of the basis, can not be ignored.
If you like me, then as long as I like, you should love me, love my dog and also to like — the logic of women is so.
* Take her over and take a closer look.
You certainly know what to do to win a woman’s heart if you can afford it.
If you don’t make a fuss at the time, quietly buy it later and give it to her again.
Such unexpected surprise, more will make her happy, not by you look at you differently.
Women are born romantics, no matter their age.
Therefore, every important anniversary is actually a good opportunity for men to shine.
Mark these days in your calendar — if you can’t stick them in your head.
* Although the combination of flowers and candlelight dinner has been overused, the always shrewd woman suddenly becomes foolish and falls for it.
Of course, if you can think of anything new, go ahead and do it.
* If you do forget about it, and women prepare and expect and expect it…
So sad and disappointed is inevitable.
Since the man must be responsible for the consequences, dance.
Although the set in the movie novel is vulgar, it can be used for temporary rescue. For example, in “Rolling Red Dust”, the heroine steps on the shoes of the hero with bare feet, and the two dance to the music, which is quite creative.
Who picks up the TAB after a pleasant dinner?
Once upon a time, this seemed to be the responsibility of men, but in a modern world where women are constantly taking jobs from men, it’s not fair for a woman to put down her spoon and fork and head off to the bathroom to fix her makeup. Sometimes, women are more than willing to pay the bill.
* The best way for a man to win a woman’s heart is to meet her needs as quickly as possible.
The only exception is when a woman asks to pay.
Maybe you decided that since she really wanted to invite you, it would be more respectful to ask her to pay for it.
The truth is, women like to see men insist on paying for themselves.
This is an emotional need rather than a money problem.
So don’t sit by while she pays.
Unless you’ve already agreed.
* However, she’s not faking it, she’s not testing you, she really wants to treat.
Although you should be fierce and honest in an argument, you must let her win the day, or she will think you are too stubborn or even belittling her.
Of course, the next meal will be yours for the taking.
Every man has a woman ask him, “Do you love me?”
Do women really not know?
Of course not. She probably knows better than you.
They just want to hear those three words because they don’t seem to hear them from you.
They have to have it because they don’t have it.
* If you grit your teeth and don’t say it out loud — no matter how much effort and talk goes into it, women are still persistent.
If you don’t want to be harassed all the time, just admit it.
* “I love you” is a mouthful, but since women speak it so fluently, men probably won’t bite their tongues.
Smart men know that saying I love you is more effective than doing ten things for her.
It is unfortunate that you are in the street for a trivial unhappy, but also with her ex-boyfriend accidentally.
How do you handle this awkward situation?
How would you treat your girlfriend afterwards?
And how would she react?
* To be honest, there are still a lot of unpersonable men out there these days.
Some may have possessive ground to be intimate to cummer suddenly, with this demonstration.
But then quickly cold, as if the girlfriend did something sorry for him.
Proper jealousy can satisfy a woman’s vanity, but if it is shown in front of others, it will be looked down upon by women.
* Women will be grateful if men show tolerance and act naturally, as if they had just met a friend.
No need to ask, the woman will talk to you about it automatically, and if you joke about it properly, it will go away. There will be no bumps in each other’s hearts, after all, it is over.
What should you do if one day your ex-girlfriend suddenly comes to you for help?
Sometimes things like this take you by surprise, and it’s important to get them right.
* If a man is afraid of causing a misunderstanding and deliberately conceals, he will act alone, which will be even more dangerous if it is revealed someday.
Even if you help purely as a friend, women may be suspicious and think you’re still stuck with an old girlfriend.
* If you can tell her the truth first and ask her for her opinion, a woman will be happy with your honesty and feel loved and respected.
Even if you feel a little uncomfortable, she will be reasonable and support you in doing this.
Men and women do think very differently.
Men mostly focus on the logic of things, while women mostly focus on emotional communication.
In this way, different minds may have conflicts and contradictions in dealing with the same plot.
* Women never stop talking on the phone because by talking they can share their feelings with the other person.
However, many men fail to notice this. They always want a woman to get off the phone quickly, so they often imply, “I have something important to do,” etc.
At this time, the woman will think that the man does not want to listen to her, just want to put off her, so it is very angry.
* Sometimes, men are under pressure from the outside, but they don’t talk about their problems, which makes women feel left out.
She’d feel better if you talked more about the situation.
Maybe talking about a problem won’t solve it, but talking about it will certainly put her mind at ease.
She wants to help your mood as much as you want to help hers.
