The martial arts secrets of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

Don’t be too close.

Mother and daughter-in-law should keep a proper distance between, just have enough space for everyone to advance and retreat freely are not hurt.

Your son has his own life, you let him go;

Husband is your but there is a mother, you don’t always capricious.

Don’t be too close, good time forgot to measure into each other’s heart, angry time did not respect and hurt the man’s heart.

As long as she let go, as long as you are independent, there will be a lot less between you.

Don’t be too far away.

The younger generation has difficulties the elder should help, the elder needs the younger generation should help, only in this kind of help, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will give birth to feelings, more consideration, and have gratitude.

Don’t too far, thousands of mountains and rivers can not stop the missing of men and women, but will block the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law communication feelings, need when not in the side, nothing when who will miss who?

This is also sad.

Don’t be a mother.

Mother and daughter-in-law have no blood, also don’t have to be a mother, do a friend more pleasant.

You don’t treat her as a mother, there will be no so much dissatisfaction and complaints;

You don’t take her as your own, also didn’t have so many grievances and stubble.

Not so much want to be a kiss and not be a good kiss, not want to be a kiss and become like a kiss.

We are still less mouth, it can not afford time, are more tempted, it will last for a long time.

Don’t ignore that man.

Looking AT some mother-in-law and DAUGHTER-IN-LAW “fight” fierce, always want to say a word: What did that man do?

One is his mother, one is his wife, he should not allow you two and his dearest woman fight “a ground chicken feather”.

Men want to love also want to “use”, in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the son and husband is a wall that can “wind” the most, something to discuss with him first.

Keep your mouth shut.

In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the most important thing is each other’s a “big mouth”, what all like to ask, and what all like to say, but also like this ear into that ear not out, their own hold in the heart to ponder, and then from the “big mouth” out of the words can be no spectrum.

In fact, mislead that man, what benefit to the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have no, “education” out of a misheard misbelieved him, hurt your heart.

Don’t take yourself too seriously.

Do mother-in-law is not an upgrade, but your son married his beloved woman, and you have no big relationship, you can not put on a show.

Do daughter-in-law but because the man loves you, his mother does not have to love you, you can not carry.

If the man takes you two women seriously, love will be able to forever, between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law you don’t take yourself too seriously, it will only let the fate of everyone go not far.

Don’t be dissatisfied.

Mother-in-law for your efforts you don’t think she has money, she for you to pay you don’t think she love;

Daughter-in-law you when the mother you always feel that she is an outsider, she is polite to you you and displease her little love, such a mother-in-law daughter-in-law that is boring, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship is not saved, that man is not to mention.

If people are not satisfied, the desire has no bottom line, one day he first fell into the abyss of pain.

Don’t be evil.

It is normal for a family to have some bumps and bruises in their life, and they will go on without saying anything at all. Just don’t give birth to malice in complaining.

Stirring up the relationship between young couples and cursing the husband’s parents are all “exemplary works” of “the most poisonous woman’s heart”. If you don’t want your son to be lonely and your grandson to have a stepmother, and if you don’t want to lie in bed without water when you are old, you will accumulate some virtues now.

Don’t make this about the kids.

The third generation is the family’s “star of hope,” but don’t let the two women fight first.

Since all are love, then division of labor, someone tube food and clothing, someone tube education, who also don’t say who is bad, don’t put the child when the condition.

The mother-in-law is willing to help out all the time, the younger generation also need to help out sometimes, daughter-in-law also don’t rely on the elder to manage everything, you should be able to be a mother.

Don’t be rude.

Why should a mother-in-law take the wrath of her daughter-in-law?

Why should a daughter-in-law look at her mother-in-law?

We’d better be polite, and no one wants to be unkind to anyone.

You can say whatever you want to people, you know?

She’s not your real mother.

You can teach people what you want?

She’s not your daughter.

Don’t be rude. You’re making yourself look bad, in case that man doesn’t get off your back again.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, a loss is to lose, a win is a win-win situation.

You say, do you want to lose or do you want to win?

But is playing a “Taijiquan”, you come to me, the battle of wits and courage, so that is 42 dial a thousand jin, fitness is the most important, don’t take it too seriously.

The old woman says the old woman is right, the daughter-in-law says the daughter-in-law is right, whose fault is that?

Who is not wrong in the final analysis, that man is she has raised, how much she loves him even partial to him, what is wrong with this?

The man she was going to grow old with, she asked him to even boss him, what was wrong with that?

Since no one is wrong, there is no need to say so much.

Let go of the man in the middle, and make peace with your family and talents.

This mother-in-law and daughter-in-law over the “Wu Lin secret”, speaking of is not difficult, practice is not difficult.

It is said that the honest official is difficult to break housework, in my opinion, as long as you are the first to see yourself clearly, and your man to teach good, and then straighten out the relationship with the other side, also everything OK.

We do not seek to “monopolize wulin”, but for the long love under the light of the clouds, the fate to cherish the edge……