How to overcome a child’s natural weakness?

Some children are born with weak personality, which can upset some parents. How can we overcome the child’s natural weakness? Let’s take a look!

1. Let the children speak boldly. To achieve this, the effort is still on the parents. First of all, parents should guard against impatience and impatience. They should not beat, scold, blame, or force their children to speak. Secondly, you can invite some children of the same age and weak personality to participate in group activities. At this time, parents guide or simply avoid them, so that they have a free and unconstrained language space. If conditions permit, parents can often take their children to areas with open views and open spaces to encourage children to vent.
2. Let children contact their peers and exercise themselves. Psychologists point out that children’s characters are most evident in games and daily life, and this is also the best way to correct bad characters. Love of imitation is a major characteristic of children. Parents should let children with weak characters often spend time with bold and brave friends, and do some things that they usually dare not do, so that they can gradually get exercise.
3. Respect the child and not expose the child’s shortcomings. Relatively speaking, children with weak personality are more introverted and their feelings are more fragile. Parents should pay special attention to protecting their children’s self-esteem. If the child’s shortcomings are exposed in public, it will damage the child’s dignity, and invisible bad stimulation can strengthen the child’s weakness
4. let children learn to live and grasp the responsibility of their own parents is one of the important reasons for children to form weak characters. Some parents are obedient to their children and do not let their children do anything. This is equivalent to depriving children of opportunities for self-expression, resulting in the shrinking of children’s ability to live independently.